Make Your Apartment Sexier

Take a moment to close your eyes and imagine yourself having the best sex of your life.

Now pause, and notice one thing in particular about your fantasy- the setting. Where are you?

Chances are, you’re not picturing having sex in a messy room with laundry all over the floor or on top of dirty sheets. Right? Didn’t think so.

Relationships & SexErinn WilliamsSeptember 16, 2020ELEVATED life counselingsex therapy, low desire, low libido, low sex drive, turn ons, turn offs, couples therapy, improve your sex life

Let’s Talk About Sex: tips for talking to your partner about your sex life

When clients come to me to discuss low sex drive and desire, there are always a couple items we check in on as we explore the problem. One of those things is to what extent they enjoy the sex they are having with their partner. This covers all sorts of ground: are they feeling pleasure during sex, are they feeling connected during sex, does their partner attend to their needs, are they attracted to their partner, are they doing the things they like to do while having sex? The logic behind this question is clear: why would one want to have more sex if the sex they are having isn’t that satisfying?

Relationships & SexErinn WilliamsAugust 20, 2020ELEVATED life counselingsex therapy, how to talk to my partner about sex, how to talk about sex, low desire, low sex drive, sexless marriage, low libido, how to talk about low sex drive, how to improve my sex life, improve your sex life, relationships